Before I started working at home, I would often bring the emotions and gossip I learned from the office home with me. My husband would tell me to relax and separate the office life from home life. Great advice but I found it so hard to do. Part of the reason I found it hard to do was because I was bombarded with extremely stressful and non supportive management..but that’s besides the point! When I quit the office life, I was determined to be a successful business woman from my home.
Being successful without having to step outside my front door is possible and I can see that more and more every day, however now I am faced with the task of separating my work at home from my personal life at home! Two weekends in a row now I have opened the computer when my husband was in the shower and I found myself catching up on projects for the remainder of the afternoon. Sorry babe:(
As I’m getting the hang of this home office time management thing, I am learning informative ways to separate my work life from my home life and I would like to share them with you!
Move Away from the Living Room
Set up your home office away from the television and away from areas where most traffic tend to congregate. This most of the time means staying away from the living room area. Set up your own space where you can have a desk and all necessary equipment. This can be a corner of a room or a different room altogether. Sitting on your couch in your pajamas is ok only sometimes, the rest of the time you need your space! That way you can leave your space and not feel like you are constantly at the office.
Set Deadlines For Yourself
When you work from home, you must be diligent and self sufficient. There is no boss hanging over your shoulder telling you to get your work done (this reason alone makes me breath a sigh of relief every day), but hold that thought, there ARE clients who expect you to get your work done and done on time! Just because you work at home, does not mean people don’t rely on you. Prioritize your work and set up a schedule that works for you and your personal life.
Turn Off the TV
You will be working on the weekends if you find yourself getting involved with all of the day time talk shows! Turn off the television, shut off your MSN Messenger, click off the Facebook and shut down your email if you have to. Working from home still means working after all. Ok I will admit, I was a fan of checking my Facebook and Messenger at previous jobs, but I was completely unsatisfied and needed to escape from my current situation, if only just for a few minutes. Now I’m the boss of my domain and business and the need isn’t there quite as much. What a feeling!
Get Out of the House
Set time aside every day to get out of the house and do something other than work. I used to follow this rule when I worked in an office. My lunch hour was extremely important to me. If I didn’t get out during the day, I would be extremely grumpy. Now I find myself working straight some days for 10 – 12 hours! After feeling a little depressed and frustrated with work recently, I decided to take breaks and see friends for lunch, go for a walk or go to the gym. This has helped me tremendously to stay positive and stay focused on how I want my business to run. Don’t be a hermit or you will go a little crazy!
All I’m asking in this post is to remember why you chose to work from home in the first place. Perhaps you wanted freedom to choose your own hours, freedom to complete tasks on your own schedule, freedom from a long commute and freedom to wear what you wish during the day. Well these reasons still apply, just remember to enjoy the freedom of having extra time to yourself and spending more time with those you love. I am more relaxed now than ever and while I’m still overcoming the hurdles of separating home office from home life (hey I’m only human), I’m learning every day to enjoy the important things in life:)